Am I Too Old to Learn Italian?

I started learning Italian in my 40’s so when I hear the question “Am I too old to learn Italian” I am quick to reply. 

You are never too old to learn Italian.  One of the most damaging myths in learning Italian is the idea that once we reach a certain age we are too old to learn the language. This is simply not true. 

To the contrary studies have proven that there is not a critical age range when learning a new language. 

For example, in the study “A Test of the Critical-Period Hypothesis for Second-Language Acquisition”, 2.3 million US immigrants were tested. The study examined the immigrants abilities to learn a second language and how that correlated to age and other factors.

In the end, the study found no correlation between the immigrants ability to learn a second language and their age

So those who were in their middle ages or older were able to learn a second language just as well as children or teenagers. 

That is great news if you thought you were too old to learn Italian!

Why Adults Are Not Too Old To Learn Italian

There are many factors that actually work in favor of older language learners. Here are just a few:

1. Learning Ability 

Adults have a big advantage because they already know how to learn.

Children and younger students must follow the instructions of teachers. On the other hand, as adults we have the ability to also teach ourselves. We know what methods work for us and which ones do not.

In fact most polyglots, a person who can speak several languages, say learning a new language like Italian becomes easier over time. 

This is because they develop systems of learning that work for them. 

Steve Kaufman is a shining example of this.  He could only speak English until the age of 17. 

However, since the age of 17 he has learned 16 languages fluently!  And he is still learning.

At age 60 he started learning Russian and at age 62 he started to learn Portuguese.

I found the same to be true for me.

As I have progressed in learning Italian I have been able to identify what methods work the best for me. This has spend up my learning dramatically.

2. Attention Span

Adults once again have a huge advantage when it comes to attention span.

Learning Italian can be a difficult and long process at times.

As such, it requires intense dedication for extended periods of time.

Thankfully our attention spans increase over time and peak around age 43.

So those long sessions of listening and learning Italian are much easier for an adult than a child.

3. Motivation

Having a “why” or reason to learn Italian can be the biggest contributing factor to your success in Italian fluency.

Perhaps your “why” is the desire to speak with relatives. 

Or maybe you have a love interest who speaks Italian.

Maybe you love to travel to Italy and want to be able to truly experience the country as an insider.

Whatever it is the motivation to learn Italian will get you going through the difficult times.

After all, as famed Austrian psychologist and Holocaust survivor Victor Frankl stated:

“Those who have a ‘why’ to live, can bear with almost any ‘how’.”

As adults our “why” is usually stronger than children. Especially those that are being forced to learn italian.

4. Time

Learning Italian requires a serious time commitment.  

This may be difficult for some adults with small children or those busy with their careers.

However, for senior citizens learning Italian or those retired time is more freely available. 

Even more than children who are busy with school, after school programs, and athletics.

5. Access to Italian Learning Resources

We are lucky to be living in the midst of the Information age.

Never before has there been this amount of readily available resources to learn Italian.

All easily accessible from our computers or smart phones with a click of a button.

All within reach whether you are at home or on the road.

And most of the resources are free

For those of us who grew up without the internet we can remember how difficult it was to find resources for studying anything.

Imagine trying to learn Italian without the help of the internet?

With so many free resources online adults of any age can speed up their Italian learning.

Benefits Of Learning Italian As An Adult 

So now that we know we are not too old to learn Italian the next question is:

Why should I learn Italian as an adult?

There are several reasons:

1. Learning Italian is Good for Your Brain Health

Recent studies have shown that learning a second language improves cognition in older adults and also delays the onset of dementia and Alzheimer’s.

Further, learning a second language like Italian can improve your overall intelligence, concentration and memory.

But the benefits do not end there.

Learning Italian can also help you make better decisions. People who speak only one language tend to make decisions based on emotions.

We also see that as we learn Italian we are actually also improving our English. I may be dating myself and I don’t remember much from my high school English classes. However, since I started learning Italian I also have renewed/increased my knowledge of English grammar. This has led to improved writing, speaking and communication skills.

2. Learning Italian Expands New Horizons

Being able to speak Italian has enriched my life in many ways.

Most of all it has allowed me to meet and become friends with so many people that I would have never been able to communicate with in the past.

It has made my trips to Italy so much more enjoyable. I can now speak with locals and feel a part of whatever city I am visiting. 

For others learning Italian as an adult can open up new job and business opportunities.

3. Learning Italian Will Give You More Self-Confidence

Learning Italian can be a humbling experience.

In the beginning you will fail and at times you may even lose hope.

But learning Italian can also be one of the most rewarding things you can do.

From being able to say simple phrases to having your first conversation in Italian these moments will give you a huge sense of accomplishment.

In these moments you have taken a chance and moved out of your comfort zone. In being able to speak even a little Italian you will a profound sense that you are still able to take on and conquer anything. 

No matter what your age is.

Related Question:

Do children have any advantages over adults in learning Italian?

Studies have found children have an advantage with regards to learning Italian pronunciation and grammar.

However, what is your goal? Fluency or perfection?

For most of us even being able to communicate in Italian would be a huge achievement.

Italian fluency is certainly possible at any age.

Perfection, especially with regards to pronunciation, may not be attainable after a certain age but most adult learners are ok with that.

Do I Need To Speak Italian To Visit Italy?

Since I visit Italy often people will ask me questions about how to make the most of their upcoming trip.  One question I receive often is “Do I need to speak Italian to visit Italy?”.

You do not need to speak Italian to visit Italy. Most Italians working at tourist destinations such as hotels, restaurants, airports, and train stations speak English. They are used to interacting with Americans visiting Italy and can switch from Italian to English with ease.

However, if you want to get the most out of your trip to Italy I do recommend learning a few keywords and phrases. Italians are usually extremely friendly and appreciative when we try to speak their language. 

Even if it’s a simple “Grazie” or “Ciao”. 

But why stop there?

Learning Some Italian Can Help You Enjoy Italy

If you really want to feel connected and take your Italian experience to the next level spend some time prior to your trip learning a little Italian. 

You won’t become fluent in a few months like some “experts” claim but you will be surprised how much you can pick up with a little time and effort. 

How impressed will your fellow travelers be when you order your meal in Italian? 

Lost in a small town and you can’t find someone who speaks English? 

Knowing some question and direction phrases can be a life saver.

How To Learn Some Italian For Traveling

There are countless Italian language resources online that can be accessed from anywhere as long as you have an internet connection.

Do you commute to work?

If so, why not spend that time listening to a Beginner Italian Podcast.

Are you currently binge watching an entire season of Stranger Things on Netflix?

Why not replace one episode with an Italian Language YouTube video?

While you do not need to be fluent to enjoy your Italian holiday knowing a few of the following simple Italian key words and phrases will help you fit in during your trip to Italy. 

Simple Italian Phrases For Travel

Italian Greetings 

Being able to say hello and introduce yourself in Italian is easier than you’d think as a beginner. Try these simple phrases to greet Italians and you will be on your way to making new friends.

  • Hello (informal) – Ciao
  • Hello (formal) – Salve
  • Goodbye (informal) – Ciao
  • Goodbye (formal) – Arriverderci 
  • Good morning – Buongiorno
  • Good evening – Buona sera
  • Good night – Buona notte
  • My name is – Mi chiamo
  • What is your name (informal)? – Come ti chiami?
  • What is your name (formal)? – Come si chiama?

Italian Courtesy Phrases For Travelers

Being polite is always nice no matter what is the language you are using. These phrases will help you maintain your manners while you are visiting Italy:

  • Yes – Sì
  • No – No
  • Thank you – Grazie
  • Your welcome – Prego
  • Please – Per favore
  • I don’t speak Italian  – Non parlo italiano
  • Excuse me – Mi scusi
  • Do you speak English? – Parla inglese?
  • How are you? – Come sta?
  • How do you say? – Come si chiama?

Italian Question Words For Travelers

Whether you are in Rome looking for gelato or in Milan asking for directions, being able to ask questions in Italian can be very helpful. 

Here are a couple key question words that will help you.

  • What? – Cosa?/ Che? / Che cosa?
  • Where? – Dove?
  • Who? – Chi?
  • Where? – Dove?
  • How? – Come?
  • Why? – Perché?

Italian Numbers 

Ordering two espressos for you and your partner in Florence? Looking for a table for four in Naples? Knowing your Italians numbers can come in handy in many situations.

  • 1 – Uno
  • 2 – Due
  • 3 – Tre
  • 4 – Quattro
  • 5 – Cinque
  • 6 – Sei
  • 7 – Sette
  • 8 – Otto
  • 9 – Nove
  • 10 – Dieci

Italian Phrases To Use At Restaurant And Bars 

If you have never been to Italy before than you are in for a treat. Italian food is some of the best in the world. 

A few things to note about eating and drinking in Italy:

  1. Dinner – Italians eat dinner late. Typically most restaurants don’t open until 7:00pm and most Italians don’t eat dinner until 9:00pm and will stay at the restaurant for much longer than Americans do.
  2. Bars – When you see a sign for a bar in Italy know they are not like bars here in the United States. In Italy bars are places to not only grab a drink but also a coffee, breakfast or a quick bite to eat. They are casual hang-out places for locals and tourists alike.
  3. Coffee – When ordering an espresso simply say “un caffe”.  Italians don’t order using the word espresso. Speaking of coffee, if you want to blend in with the locals don’t order a cappuccino after breakfast. Italians never drink cappuccino after a meal and may look at you strangely if you order one in the afternoon.
  4. Tipping – Unlike in the United States, tipping isn’t nearly as common in Italy. Don’t feel obligated to do so unless you feel you received exemplary service.

Reading a menu and ordering in Italian can be a challenge but here are some words and phrases to help you at restaurants, bars and cafes in Italy:

  • I would like – Vorrei
  • A glass of  – Un bicchiere di
  • A bottle of  – Un bottiglia di
  • A cup of – Una tazza di
  • Beer – Birra
  • Red wine – Vino rosso
  • White wine – Vino bianco
  • A coffee – Un caffè
  • Still water – Acqua naturale
  • Sparkling water – Acqua frizzante
  • The menu, please – Il menù, per favore
  • What do you recommend? : Che cosa mi consiglia?
  • Check, please – Il conto, per favore

Italian Phrases To Use While Shopping

Italians take their fashion style seriously and that is why they are some of the most fashionable people in the world. 

So a trip to Italy without trying some of their latest styles would be a mistake. 

These phrases will help you at clothing stores around Italy:

  • Do you have…? – Avete…?
  • How much is this? – Quanto costa?
  • I need – Mi serve
  • Shirt – Camicia
  • Shoes – Scarpe
  • Pants – Pantaloni
  • Dress – Vestito
  • Too tight – Troppo stretto
  • Too loose – Troppo largo
  • I like – Mi piace
  • I don’t like – Non mi piace

Asking For Directions While Traveling In Italy

Italy can be a confusing place to navigate at times. 

Going to Venice? If so you will get lost multiple times during your visit. 

Don’t worry. Venice is a small island so you can always find your way back to your hotel or next destination.  

But wouldn’t be easier if you could ask for directions in Italian? 

Knowing these keywords and phrases will help.

  • Where is? – Dov’è
  • Left – Sinistra
  • Right – Destra
  • In front of – Davanti
  • Next to – Accanto
  • Near – Vicino
  • Far – Lontano
  • Street – Strada
  • Church – Chiesa
  • Square – Piazza
  • Park – Parco
  • Museum – Museo
  • Train station – Stazione
  • Airport – Aeroporto

How To Ask For Help In Italy

Hopefully your trip to Italy will be accident free and you will never need to ask for help or find yourself in an emergency situation.

However, if by some chance you do,  knowing these words and phrases could be the most helpful of all.

  • Help! – Aiuto!
  • Doctor – Dottore
  • Ambulance – ambulanza
  • Call the police – Chiama la polizia
  • I feel sick – Mi sento male
  • Call an ambulance  – Chiama un’ambulanza
  • Pharmacy  – Farmacia

Related Questions

Is It Hard To Communicate In Italy?

Communicating in Italy for English speakers is usually not difficult. Many Italians speak some English but even if they don’t you should be able to navigate those situations. If you find yourself in such a case use hand gestures and speak in short sentences. This will work more often than you would imagine.

Is It Expensive To Visit Italy?

Visiting Italy can be affordable if you plan right. The most important thing to know is that if you travel off-season (November- March) you will usually see big savings in travel and hotel prices. For example, I have seen the same hotel room cost $85 in January and $300 in June.